Hello, I saw your mail through your website. I really want to be enlightened on some things that is giving me
concern. Firstly, how do I know that I'm in love and not infatuation or lust? Secondly, do you believe in love at first sight, this kind of love does
it really work? Thirdly, does short courtship really leads to happy marriage? I will like to hearing from you soon. Thank you. Tosin
Good day Miss,
Nice reading from you. What I will be shairing with you is what you really know friend.
The problem most people are having is that they do not really
understand much about relationships, and they jump into it and jump out either hurt or pretendly hurt. Well these are the answers to your
questions:
How do you know if you are in love: Love is actualy deep, and only the deep can relate with the deep. In the first place infatuation is
different from lust. But to differenciate in a summary form. I will say
that love is a magnet that magnets its type (true love, friend). Infatuation does not last, it is only a problem of too much thinking
about the person you are infatuated of. In the sense that either he
sights you first or you did. Now what makes it a sign of infatuation is
when you think about him so much that it gets to a sexual charge
surrounding about it. Now most times the guy thinks about breaking in to the girls precious part due to much thoughts of the girl. The girl
may have a holy heart in the sense that she is expecting the guy to
make his feelings known to her so that she can respond back. But guess what even if the girl is not thinking about sex, the atmosphere of the guy gets into her and it is a "if he ask for it I will give it to him"
I wouldn't want to miss this guy and I will do what ever it takes and
then something is getting wrong.
The truth about infatuation is most times tired on conditional love. In
the sense that they both see each other often. So the guy becomes a
constant in her heart and subconcious mind. But to test infatuation,
let the girl leave that location, I tell you with time she will stop
getting used to him and then she can now differenciate. But if she does leave and keeps thinking of him it will increase.
Love is deep and if you care to know, call a spade a spade and you'll
get it. There are lots of signs to know what real love is but that will
be some day. It has been notted that most people that seem to be
matured still fall. So it shows how deep it is. I pray you get the righ
person friend.
Question two is love at first sight: Love at first sight is real but to
test its realness is when both can feel it at almost same time. Most
people have taking attractiveness and matured dressing as this is my
type and they think it is love at first sight. I hope you get what i
wrote here. Love at first sight is actually nice if you can abstain
from some certain things. It test it very well. Love at first sight
most times is tired to levels by levels and I feel its not that a valid
love completeness.
Question three says does short courtship really lead to marriage:It is not that valid except both individuals are matured about
relationships, where they can have a short courtship. With the few
times they can see what will happen at the end. But most times people
say that women or men change when they get married. Hmmm I will advice you get to know the best basic that matters to you before you get married to see those things that are not real points to end a
relationship.
You can know what he can do even in short courtship. I
will let you know another point that will help you when i speak with
you on phone.
The bottom line is that love is deep and so do not jump but crawl till
you can stand and then look well and stand well! Also infatuation is lasted bye sex making( I will talk about sex making some time). Abstain from sex from beginning till the marriage time and you sill see most will run away from you. Hahah is it hard to do? SOAR HIGH!
Have a blessed relationship friend.
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Tuesday, March 4, 2008
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GOD'S VESSELS SECREET
Nothing can hold anyone down who has in him the yeast to rise! For when it is all over, you'll still bestanding!
Every grteat achiever has a passionate memory of a time in their life when they were given multiple reasons to believe that they were failures. But at last, they proved the critics wrong.
Do you feel overwhelmed by your challenges?
Do you feel like giving up pursuit of your dreams?
do you feel like there's no point trying anymore?
Lawrence Onochie knows that you can make it against all odds as long as you still have breath in your nostrils. Until you strech yourself, you'll never know what you are capable of achieving with your life.
The odds have not been found that can stop a man who will stake his life on his dreams.
Coiled out from AGAINST ALL ODDS, written by Lawrence Onochie. The King's Heritage (+23485007390, +23414360757).
I am happy having your inspiration on this site. SOAR HIGH!
Every grteat achiever has a passionate memory of a time in their life when they were given multiple reasons to believe that they were failures. But at last, they proved the critics wrong.
Do you feel overwhelmed by your challenges?
Do you feel like giving up pursuit of your dreams?
do you feel like there's no point trying anymore?
Lawrence Onochie knows that you can make it against all odds as long as you still have breath in your nostrils. Until you strech yourself, you'll never know what you are capable of achieving with your life.
The odds have not been found that can stop a man who will stake his life on his dreams.
Coiled out from AGAINST ALL ODDS, written by Lawrence Onochie. The King's Heritage (+23485007390, +23414360757).
I am happy having your inspiration on this site. SOAR HIGH!
HABIT AND CHARACTER
Human beings are creatures of habit. We get into a routine that we are comfortable with and we stick to it unless something big comes along and shocks us out of it. Our daily habits often force us to put up with all kind of degrading and destructive events, all in the name of keeping things comfortable or familiar.
We would rather put up with the habits we know because we can put up with them, rather than create new habits that we have never experienced before.The excuses for clinging to our habits range from almost acceptable to completely neurotic. For example, staying in a job that you don't like so that you can continue to pay the mortgage and feed your family is almost an acceptable excuse for staying at your job. It would be just foolish to suddenly quit and start thinking about how to pay your bills.But it is wrong to think that this job that you dislike has to be it for the rest of your life. Sure it's comfortable, you know you can do it, but don't you owe to yourself, your family, and your employer to get out and do a job that is right for you? Nothing will change if you don't change. The first step is recognizing that change is necessary.
Secondly you have to figure out where you would be more fulfilled in your career. Maybe you have to do something more creative, something outdoors in nature, something that allows you to be in different places, or maybe you have to be the one making all the decisions with your own business. When you are clear about what it is that you really want from your career, you have to start taking steps towards it.A new job is not going to come running to you just because you're unhappy with your old one. If it's a new industry you may have a lot to learn before even thinking about applying for new positions. You may have to take classes at night while you put up with your dull job during the day.If it's your own business that you dream of, you may have to start from your home. Working during the night and weekends to move closer to doing it fulltime and leaving your old job. Just because we are familiar with something is no reason to continue doing it. It's easy to get caught up in day to day living - especially if you have a family to take care of - and to put off any changes that could improve your life.
Change can invoke fear, insecurity, and feelings of loss in people. Make the change anyway!Life is not pausing for you while you are putting up with something that you dislike. Life is passing you by while you waste it doing the wrong thing. There's no rewind button, there's only now, and if you're not happy with your now, Change it!
I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU TO - Changing Habits - Article by Michael Dylan. SOAR HIGH!
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Love can never be a pretence.
It is plain and white as snow. So playing games in your relationship is creating a black spot that will stand as a testifier against you. What do we gain in fooling our selves? It is good to let you know that unknowingly you repeat cycles and only delay your right partner. Love is not a place for competittion. It is a world meant for two faithful lover. Can you say you are a faithful lover?
As good as it is to love God; So it is to Love your neigbhour as your self. So what you wouldn't like to happen to you, please don't do it to someone else. Love...2 be continued.
It is plain and white as snow. So playing games in your relationship is creating a black spot that will stand as a testifier against you. What do we gain in fooling our selves? It is good to let you know that unknowingly you repeat cycles and only delay your right partner. Love is not a place for competittion. It is a world meant for two faithful lover. Can you say you are a faithful lover?
As good as it is to love God; So it is to Love your neigbhour as your self. So what you wouldn't like to happen to you, please don't do it to someone else. Love...2 be continued.
MOTIVATIONAL EXPO
As the new year draws closer and many people are going into holiday mode, some people are thinking about the year ahead. It can be a time for reviewing the year that was and thinking about the year that will be. Many people will be coming up with new year's resolution for 2009 even though they can't even remember what their new years resolution was for 2008! While many come up with a new year's resolution, they do so in a flippant, light hearted manner. We may commit to lose weight or save money, but before January is even finished we will be pigging out on chocolate and buying designer clothes or fast cars.If you're going to take the time to come up with a resolution for the new year ahead, why not make it a serious commitment? Treat it like a real goal that you plan to achieve.
POINT 1- Make sure you are Realistic about the Goal: The reason many goals are not achieved is because they are unrealistic. If you are currently earning 140,000 per year, with no savings, and you want to be a millionaire within the next 12 months, you may be setting yourself up to fail. Lottery should not be a part of your goal setting as you have very little control over winning money. Your goals should be ambitious enough to get you out your comfort zone, but realistic enough to be achievable.
POINT 2- Get Clear about your GoalWrite your goal down in detail with time frames and specific numbers or objectives. If you want to lose weight this year, your goal could be to lose a set number of kilos of pounds each month, with a total to be lost before the end of 2009. Or you may choose to increase sales by 50% for the year.
POINT 3- Set Mini GoalsRather than just focusing on one major goal like saving 20 percent of a home loan for a deposit, have mini goals that are regularly achieved. If you have set yourself 12 months to save 120,000 your goal could be to save 10000 each month. Which means your one goal of 120,000 should be divided into 12 mini goals of 10000.
POINT 4- Be Committed! Understand that if your goal or resolution is even slightly ambitious, it will take time, possibly money, dedication, persistence, and a lot of commitment.It may require further education, more work, risk, and a lot of sacrifice on your part.If you are serious about achieving your new year's COMMITMENT for 2009 it is worth taking the extra time necessary to get clear about what your resolution is and how it will be achieved.
Don't be flippant about the next 12 months and use it to achieve something worthwhile. Some of the most common new years resolutions will be to lose weight, save more money, get out of debt, improve education, find a better job, join the gym, quit smoking, and to spend more time with the family. A lot of these changes will take a lot of commitment and dedication to achieve.
THE SECREET TO PROGRESS IS YOU, THE SECREET TO GREATNESS IS CONSISTENCY AND THE YOU IS THE POSITIVE RESULT OR ATTINMENT OF YOUR PROGRESS MULIPLIED BY CONSISTENCY. HAVE A HAPPY 2009!
Permission for adding a few things to your article. I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU TO -New Year's Resolutions for 07 - Article by Michael Dylan. It's a pleasure having your article on this site. SOAR HIGH!