Monday, October 26, 2009

IN THE DAYS OF THE NEW NIGERIA





IN THE DAYS OF THE NEW NIGERIA

Dreams come true, come through and leave you in the world of your dream. That is why the best author who has the widest read book, said we are a product of our thought. What you are about to read is my story for the New Nigeria.
In the days of the New Nigeria there were preparation for election and surprisingly there was no ‘god father’ interference, no sidelining, kidnapping, bribery and election rigging. The people were in their right senses, influenced and were assured of their several choices. The media took interviews of some positive and patriotic Nigerians and they found that every one’s choice was based on a well thought choice. The Election Day approached and the people could not wait to cast their well thought vote. On the 8th of April was the election and everyone was out to cast their vote, and it want all well. Few days later the result came out and the choice president, Ass-President, Governor, senators, house of assembly and local government chairmen were chosen and their qualities were pure, truthful, and all motivated by the passion for work and not for embezzlement.
The New Nigeria surprised us all because our educational system became the world standard; Jamb illegality were eradicated so that hard working students who read and wrote well were given the opportunity to enter the university. The heartbeats of students were to read for knowledge and not to impress anyone but that they may be able to prove what they read anytime they are tested. Honestly the least score was c5 and then D7, C6, F9 was only a choice. At this time almost half of the class had A1 and B3. So the medium for reward was award by the government for one year scholarship each.
On the fifth year which was the shock of Nigerians, we all looked closely and were happy that for good five years there was no power failure and we Nigerians marked it with a celebration tagged ‘THE NEW NIGERIA, A REALITY’ and it had a strong saying ‘A step forward!’. Automatically our economic value increased so much that we no more owed World Bank. Our debts were paid, with ease. So there was no scare in ironing our clothes because the light was always stable. This automatically reminded me of a journey I had in Europe. My friends and I were had a scheduled meeting and all of a sudden we shouted ‘hey we have not ironed our shirts, NEPA will take light’ and then I laughed and reminded them that we were in Europe, not Nigeria. But we were glad that Nigeria had a stable light.
The availability of light gave rise to many developments in our country. It lead to no export because we now had our processing factories round the 37 states of Nigeria. This automatically made things cheap and affordable.
It, lead to self employment and more of entrepreneurs. This lead to high income yield in our financial sectors, as patriotic business owners solved challenges of the nation as much as they can, making a full support with the Nigeria Government and it made a more rapid growth in the nation. And then we saw ‘that with all for all, the desired all becomes a reality. Saying by Pjbass!
It is true that Nigeria was voted to be one of the most illegal sexed nation; a corrupt people and dirty in our dealings. Yes, it was said but right now it became a model for right relationship (marriage, dating, courting, gigolo, and end to abortions, unwanted pregnancies, gay (male and female same sex), commercial sex workers )harlots) and AIDS/HIV nation. I couldn’t express how happy I was; the constant reality of our youth’s positive sex lifestyle and non corrupt attitude further made me believe. Then there was no need for scare of insecurity, rape and sex camping. Because 95% had positive mindset and were all burned with the passion for change, the change we see now but never ending.
While abroad back then, I came to understand that even though Africa (Nigeria in view) is painted as a black negative nation and most corrupt, I found that we were abroad. But in the New Nigeria I was happy that the world publicized Nigeria, Africa as the best nation and continent to live in. They further said; the secrete to our success was that ‘we took a step at a time’. While they mocked us and said things about us, we kept moving and now they are behind us, far away. Now we were known as 1st World citizens and whatever name for themselves.
Looking intently, I remembered when an African president (B.O), Ex- president (B.C), and the president’s wife talked to us on international cables, for getting that Africa had change agents in the white countries making their economy what it was, but unknowingly we had change agents here who had a better picture for Nigeria and so it made the words of this white ungrateful folks futile. Until the whites remember that without the blacks (Africa, Nigeria most impactful) they wouldn’t have been that successful. But in my mind continued by my dream for The New Nigeria, I knew someday Africans and Nigerians would come back to their mother land, because their mother land was better than abroad. They came and gave what they gave the whites in their own land and then the secrete was revealed that before you talk against or talk about someone, first of all apply the principle of Pjbass Talk Pattern, it states; Recognize the positive things before the negative, weigh it and dwell on the best. Well it is my happiness to announce that what makes the world what it is has left the offshore and flown back into Nigeria and now we have the best models in all of lies diversity. Oh how happy I am, even though I have narrated the story, which is my dream for Nigeria in Africa.
In this New Nigeria; Naira had more value more than it was back then when $2 equals N1, but in This New Nigeria N1.00 is valuable than the dollar and pounds. Because our N1.00 to dollar and pounds became $300, 500 pounds. It was mind blowing, but we Nigerians and Africans transacted with this Naira value, no joke.
Nigeria became a farming nation, we had everything the best standard of agriculture. It gave rise to our economical value. What a New Nigeria.
Fuel, oil and gas became so cheap to N5.00 per litre. What a new Nigeria we now live in. Where security, good roads, nice infrastructures, crimeless government, open minded indigenes, harmless Police and the military lived and did their job very well. There was not more extortion of money and waste of lives but they secured and protected lives of the indigenes of Nigeria and Africa as a whole.
Universities and all 3rd level education became very cheap, because the economy of the universities was no more needed to affect the economy of Nigeria but to take care of the universities, modernizing it and payment of the staffs so that teaching became the highest well paid job in all levels of educations. This became a reality because the teachers where the farmers of the leaders of tomorrow.
In the days of the New Nigeria, more than this happened. I am glad it is story of change that stood as the world’s legacy.
OUR REQUIREMENT
Give the positive attitude you can to Nigeria and let all Africans give their best
Our concentration is on Nigeria, so positive behaviours, confessions and healthy mindsets should be kept
Remember we are a product of what we’ve been saying, so if you need change; say what you want
I have one evil world for all that won’t admit to this dream of the New Nigeria, you will grow worse never finding peace and you will never be known for something tangible. Evil will be your path and darkness your world.
But if you are interested in Then New Nigeria, then say this together...
Nigeria, the positive model of the world, Africa the best continent of the world, The New Nigeria, a land with peace, abundance and fulfilment!

Nigeria A Step Forward... By Peter Ibeji (Pjbass, Serving Director www.fandplove.blogspot.com, www.fandplove.blogspot.com, Creative writer, Strategist, Solutions Catalyst, Idea seller and world Change Model!-08072996739, 08067379916)

Thursday, October 1, 2009






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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

INSPITE YOUR HEIGHT, BE YOUR SELF...

Let us learn from this friend.

Jenny Sanford is a woman of honor to be modeled. I do not know her past life, neither do I know what she is in full, but I know that she is a woman that understands what love is all about. Inspite her husband infidelity, she still believes Gov Mark is the best thing that ever happened to her as she is still ready to keep the relationship going. She has done what most women can't do, but I am very sure she will reap this good thing she has done to Governor Mark Sanford of South Carolina. I pray every one learns from this.

Gov Mark also made me happy as he believes that it is well, just a matter of time. I believe this is real and will definitely come to be. He was not made that way by his creator and so anything that is not a representative of his creator is off his body. Congratulations sir and ma. Blissfulness shall be yours continually. Do have blessed days.

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Friday, July 31, 2009

HIV/AIDS/SEX CHALLENGES FROM HEALTH ICONS







HIV/AIDS/SEX CHALLENGES FROM HEALTH ICONS

I start to say shame to you so called health leaders. Your destinies have only lasted for reasons known to me. Show me a leader and I will show you his products, show me a positive leader and I will show you his positive fruits. It beats my imagination but pleases my curiosity when I see mega organizations that have the power, network and influence in changing evil, but see them behave like children who need help, indirectly leading the mass public into negative behaviors and bad results to show for; a matter of time

The surprising thing is that this so called organizations are woe sayers, foreseers of the future of this innocent and stupid ones that will be the sole receivers of the negative feedbacks, they begin to cry why me, but never know that the people they look up to are evil but wolfs in sheep clothing.

I have counseled lots of people and most of them all innocent about what they do; they only took the lectures from what they were thought. We have got lots of abortions going on every day and it doesn’t reflect the fact that the leaders of these organizations to the nation as a whole will never experience peace when there is physical and spiritual murder everyday in the country, because they have thought people to use sex with condom, because while it goes on the people can’t control themselves but remove the condom and use it life, because we have forgotten to tell them that condom is just 15% secured and not hundred percent secured.

We expect the nation to be what it is and we do not know that a guy or girl who has chosen to avoid sex till they marry will not do so when they have been given condom, for some they say since it won’t make her pregnant, I have to rape her because she is stubborn, and she cries and they tell her you can cry I have had my way for you won’t be pregnant and we are not there to feel the trauma, the pain and the limitation it places on the victim towards their future relationship.

I have much to say, but with time I will. Right before me is a publication titled HIV/AIDS & SEX PRACTICAL ADVICE that teaches about HIV and the enhancer of sex for that same HIV they are stupidly trying to cure. In it is a subtopic titled: HOW CAN I CONVINCE MY PARTNER TO USE CONDOM, not their wife but partner. Another subtopic is OTHER THINGS YOU CAN TRY which teaches on how to stay in the mood playing with each other, advices that states the woman can help the m an put on the condom, and the truth but not from their heart that says a difficult partner should say “no condom no sex”. Is this the way to call a spade a spade, forgetting that with persistency they will agree just a matter of time!

Then another subtopics that states ANSWERS TO COMMON COMPLAINTS where they advice to make sex fun, telling them to follow condom rules, that trust is not enough because we both have a sexual past (which is a wrong statement for a love foundation) I will treat this later. Wicked idiots and organizations leading the people astray, you don’t even know what you are doing.

What made it worse in this publication is that they gave a sub topic titled IMPORTANT CONDOM RULES: it reads;
 Open the pack carefully, don’t use nails or teeth
 Never use petroleum jelly or oils on the condom
 Use only water, saliva or a special made lubricant like lubrica
 Wait until the penis is fully erect before putting of the condom. Hold the tip to push put the air.
 Roll the condom all the way down.
Another of their advice reads, don’t be shy, condoms can save your life, always have your own pack, instructions on proper use are in each pack. Another reads use a condom (if you must have sex while you have symptoms or are being treated for STI diseases. Meaning that even while you are treated on a disease you should still continue to have sex with condom at pain, is this not plain madness of this so called leaders?

When an innocent person or those in practice do this don’t you think that the negative sex lifestyles will increase the harlots? Sex cheaters, fake relationships for sex and the rest of them? Abortion becomes a norm and unwanted pregnancies, the lives of this ones ruined, HIV/AIDS contacted the more. Their education and their future being dashed with stains that can unbalance their mega dreams. Or why waste the precious destinies of these ones?

THE REASON FOR THE ECONOMIC CHALLENGES
USA is where it is because they spend their money on health problems. Nigeria would have become better if the funds for curing these conscious negative diseases are diverted to farming. USA is meant to be the leaders for all whites and Nigerians and this two play the wrong roles. Before I was born Societal for Family Health has existed, so you have 26 years of evil influence and Unites States Agency Intervention Development. A shame with all your development you developed diseases all this years, including the Society for Family Health. That is why your economy is this way. USA your nation can never get better if you don’t teach people to live a sex right life, if you say no watch, because your economy and country will fall more and more because all your money goes in to fighting sex and USAID is 38 years old but have not used this years positively. That is why the teenagers feel easy to sex at 13 get married at 16 live their parents and live a miserable life, because or lack of proper training. Nigeria the same goes to you.
I am tempted to mention the trustees and leaders of these organizations. But I won’t till the next time I write, if they do not put a stop to illegal sex vices then I will descend mightily the next time I write.


QUESTIONS TO USAID AND SFH/PARTNERS
 Why have you established an organization because you want to destroy the people?
 Why have you created all sex substitution for money sake and not for the truth?
 Why have you gone around sharing condom to innocent and evil people who because of it have sex?
 Why have you made it legal to haves sex before marriage
 Have you the CEO, board of trustees, partners lost your senses?
 Why have you been the reason for rape?
 Why have you been the reason for commercial sex hype (harlots)?
 Why have you chosen to increase lesbians and gays lifestyles?
 Why have you chosen to give the peoples diseases they can’t cure?
 Why have you refused to call the truth, truth?
 Why have you ruined the life of the future leaders, CEO’s of mega companies, CBN governors and great entrepreneurs?
 Why have you sown subliminal believe in using substitutions for an answer?
 Why not be real and teach the people the truth, than wasting our money on printing manuals for illegal sex?

Guess what you all will be ruined if you don’t do the right thing! You all have got the chance to make a change, do so or else, your end will be brutal, in your family, generations and life fulfillment. You will all live miserable as the repercussion of the aborted and diseased ones will fall on you, your organizations and your partners. I remain Peter Ibeji (Serving Director of RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS)

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

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Saturday, February 21, 2009

NO MORE RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES!

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It is a new year, a new phase, new approach, new priority and constant commitment to what ever you set your hands to do. I am concerned about happiness and maturity in relationships. So for this year feel free to send in your mails and blog to RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS and you will be glad you did. Have a prosperous 2009. I love you!

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GOD'S VESSELS SECREET

Nothing can hold anyone down who has in him the yeast to rise! For when it is all over, you'll still bestanding!

Every grteat achiever has a passionate memory of a time in their life when they were given multiple reasons to believe that they were failures. But at last, they proved the critics wrong.

Do you feel overwhelmed by your challenges?
Do you feel like giving up pursuit of your dreams?
do you feel like there's no point trying anymore?

Lawrence Onochie knows that you can make it against all odds as long as you still have breath in your nostrils. Until you strech yourself, you'll never know what you are capable of achieving with your life.

The odds have not been found that can stop a man who will stake his life on his dreams.

Coiled out from AGAINST ALL ODDS, written by Lawrence Onochie. The King's Heritage (+23485007390, +23414360757).
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HABIT AND CHARACTER


Human beings are creatures of habit. We get into a routine that we are comfortable with and we stick to it unless something big comes along and shocks us out of it. Our daily habits often force us to put up with all kind of degrading and destructive events, all in the name of keeping things comfortable or familiar.
We would rather put up with the habits we know because we can put up with them, rather than create new habits that we have never experienced before.The excuses for clinging to our habits range from almost acceptable to completely neurotic. For example, staying in a job that you don't like so that you can continue to pay the mortgage and feed your family is almost an acceptable excuse for staying at your job. It would be just foolish to suddenly quit and start thinking about how to pay your bills.But it is wrong to think that this job that you dislike has to be it for the rest of your life. Sure it's comfortable, you know you can do it, but don't you owe to yourself, your family, and your employer to get out and do a job that is right for you? Nothing will change if you don't change. The first step is recognizing that change is necessary.

Secondly you have to figure out where you would be more fulfilled in your career. Maybe you have to do something more creative, something outdoors in nature, something that allows you to be in different places, or maybe you have to be the one making all the decisions with your own business. When you are clear about what it is that you really want from your career, you have to start taking steps towards it.A new job is not going to come running to you just because you're unhappy with your old one. If it's a new industry you may have a lot to learn before even thinking about applying for new positions. You may have to take classes at night while you put up with your dull job during the day.If it's your own business that you dream of, you may have to start from your home. Working during the night and weekends to move closer to doing it fulltime and leaving your old job. Just because we are familiar with something is no reason to continue doing it. It's easy to get caught up in day to day living - especially if you have a family to take care of - and to put off any changes that could improve your life.
Change can invoke fear, insecurity, and feelings of loss in people. Make the change anyway!Life is not pausing for you while you are putting up with something that you dislike. Life is passing you by while you waste it doing the wrong thing. There's no rewind button, there's only now, and if you're not happy with your now, Change it!

I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU TO - Changing Habits - Article by Michael Dylan. SOAR HIGH!

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It is plain and white as snow. So playing games in your relationship is creating a black spot that will stand as a testifier against you. What do we gain in fooling our selves? It is good to let you know that unknowingly you repeat cycles and only delay your right partner. Love is not a place for competittion. It is a world meant for two faithful lover. Can you say you are a faithful lover?
As good as it is to love God; So it is to Love your neigbhour as your self. So what you wouldn't like to happen to you, please don't do it to someone else. Love...2 be continued.

MOTIVATIONAL EXPO


As the new year draws closer and many people are going into holiday mode, some people are thinking about the year ahead. It can be a time for reviewing the year that was and thinking about the year that will be. Many people will be coming up with new year's resolution for 2009 even though they can't even remember what their new years resolution was for 2008! While many come up with a new year's resolution, they do so in a flippant, light hearted manner. We may commit to lose weight or save money, but before January is even finished we will be pigging out on chocolate and buying designer clothes or fast cars.If you're going to take the time to come up with a resolution for the new year ahead, why not make it a serious commitment? Treat it like a real goal that you plan to achieve.

POINT 1- Make sure you are Realistic about the Goal: The reason many goals are not achieved is because they are unrealistic. If you are currently earning 140,000 per year, with no savings, and you want to be a millionaire within the next 12 months, you may be setting yourself up to fail. Lottery should not be a part of your goal setting as you have very little control over winning money. Your goals should be ambitious enough to get you out your comfort zone, but realistic enough to be achievable.

POINT 2- Get Clear about your GoalWrite your goal down in detail with time frames and specific numbers or objectives. If you want to lose weight this year, your goal could be to lose a set number of kilos of pounds each month, with a total to be lost before the end of 2009. Or you may choose to increase sales by 50% for the year.

POINT 3- Set Mini GoalsRather than just focusing on one major goal like saving 20 percent of a home loan for a deposit, have mini goals that are regularly achieved. If you have set yourself 12 months to save 120,000 your goal could be to save 10000 each month. Which means your one goal of 120,000 should be divided into 12 mini goals of 10000.

POINT 4- Be Committed! Understand that if your goal or resolution is even slightly ambitious, it will take time, possibly money, dedication, persistence, and a lot of commitment.It may require further education, more work, risk, and a lot of sacrifice on your part.If you are serious about achieving your new year's COMMITMENT for 2009 it is worth taking the extra time necessary to get clear about what your resolution is and how it will be achieved.

Don't be flippant about the next 12 months and use it to achieve something worthwhile. Some of the most common new years resolutions will be to lose weight, save more money, get out of debt, improve education, find a better job, join the gym, quit smoking, and to spend more time with the family. A lot of these changes will take a lot of commitment and dedication to achieve.

THE SECREET TO PROGRESS IS YOU, THE SECREET TO GREATNESS IS CONSISTENCY AND THE YOU IS THE POSITIVE RESULT OR ATTINMENT OF YOUR PROGRESS MULIPLIED BY CONSISTENCY. HAVE A HAPPY 2009!

Permission for adding a few things to your article. I WANT TO SAY THANK YOU TO -New Year's Resolutions for 07 - Article by Michael Dylan. It's a pleasure having your article on this site. SOAR HIGH!